I'm not sure I fully understand what you are trying to achieve. Can you elaborate a bit more?
When you define command column it will render a button and you can execute custom action when clicked. This is what the Custom command
If the command column doesn't fit your needs you can implement a template column and inside the template you can have whatever clickable element you like.
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