To access the link buttons in the button column programmatically, and set the ToolTip attribute of the LinkButtons inside, you can use RadGrid's ItemCreated event:
RadGrid1_ItemCreated(Object sender, GridItemEventArgs e)
GridDataItem item = (GridDataItem)e.Item;
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