RadCalendar does not support the described scenario out-of-the-box. I suggest that you create a Custom Visual state inside of SelectionStates VisualGroup of CalendarButtonStyle. After that you can use an attached property
with desired logic to control the newly created VisualState.
I've attached a sample solution demonstrating the above approach.
Hope it helps.
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