Have you tried our DragDropManager? It is an alternative DragDrop mechanism, which provides more intuitive API, and allows implementations of more complex scenarios. You can read more about it here.
You can use the DragEnter, and DragLeave events to implement the desired logic. You can see all the events that the API provides here.
Hope this helps!
the Telerik team
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