I am sorry to say but this behavior is not controlled by the RadGrid and can not be fixed. The problem is caused by the fact that the check boxes are disabled and mouse events are not fired for disabled elements(as you can see from this
discussion). This prevents the control from opening the respective cell/row for edit. The only way the cell/row can be opened for edit is to click on the non disabled part of the cell.
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