Hello Iwan van Ee,
Unfortunately there is no straightforward way to set the Header background. The easiest way to do it is with Blend by editing the default HeaderControlTemplate.
Could you please examine the attached project and there on row 96 of the MainPage.xaml file you'll find the Grid that represents the Header. If you have any further questions feel free to ask.
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