The corresponding to EnableDragAndDrop property are AllowDrag and AllowDrop which are true by default for RadTileList for Silverlight. All you need to do is to handle the events as illustrated in the article I sent and perform your own logic. However, the scenario of creating a new group while in-between two groups is not yet supported out of the box. What functionality are you trying to achieve by handling drag and drop events ?
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