Please take a look at this Telerik Dojo which illustrates how to style Group Headers.
I used my console to find the properties needed to change the stying.
This is an example of a Kendo DropDownList using Grouping as seen in this demo.
You can find out more about GroupTemplates
in our documentation.
Hope this helps clear things.
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