Can you please confirm what do you mean by mentioning that you want to customize the commands by using the listed EventoToCommand pattern alternatives? You can use them to define custom commands that execute on the occurrence of the desired events. However, I would still recommend that you use them only for scenarios when the exposed set of commands won't do the work, even with a custom provider. Otherwise, you may need custom provider to disable the default commands, as they may interfere with the custom EvenToCommand logic that is added.
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