Thank you for reporting this to us.
The issue with the SplitButton and the Enhanced tooltip has been resolved and you can get the working version in next week's lates internal build.
As for the default tooltip, we use the html title attribute to display the text of the item as the tooltip, so it's default behavior is to show the "<br />" tags.
Hope this was helpful.
the Telerik team
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