Would you please elaborate a little bit what exactly is the difference in IE9 because it is not very clear from the description provided?
As for the other questions you can also refer to this help topic where you can find more information about how exactly RadAsyncUpload works.
Please review the Custom Handler on-line demo where one possible way of images directly to a database, without using temporary folder.
Hope this will be helpful.
the Telerik team
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