What I see from the screenshots of your code is that you have set the RadAjaxManager in such way that the grid updates itself and the RadWindowManager updates itself as well - i.e. there is no connection between these two controls. To be able to show the window when clicking a button in the grid, you should set the grid to update the RadWindowManager (see attached screenshot).
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